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Coping With Loss

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It's phase two and I am here literally drooling at this piece of work! It is indeed God's masterpiece. Such a wonderful account of "Lessons From My Father. " When this journey of loss of my father began, like many who have experienced loss, I never imagined looking beyond the pain. I was frustrated, lost, disappointed, and then some more. The loss of a loved one is such an overwhelming experience. Many have different ways of coping; some wail till the cows come home, others hibernate, yet some get stronger by discovering something that heals them.  I found something! I tried everything until one day, just one day, while all alone, reflecting quietly.  A whisper of this writing project came to my ears.  I quickly jumped at it and wrote a little unpublished booklet entitled; "A Father's Journey." in honour and remembrance of him. Relatives and friends bought the book; for many, their fresh pain was relieved. I felt accomplished at this achievement. I had b...
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Kibaya Kyangu!

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  "What names are you giving your children? Be intentional about the names you choose! " Heard this question/ Statement before? Well, I believe this is very important and is a fact. What you declare out of your mouth ends up forming in the physical and yet on the other hand I see God's grace in this particular situation.  My Father was born to Sarah Alexa Nakandi and Kulikaano Iga in Nakuru Kenya. He was nicknamed “ Kibaya Kyangu ” translated My Ugly one. The name Kibaya puzzled me for a long time especially after I found out the meaning. According to him, the nick name was given in reference to his appearance. In his words; “as a baby I wasn’t so good looking.” No one knew that contrary to his nick name, my Father, Freddie Henry Kasozi (FHK) was going to be the exact opposite and even surpass it.  Excerpt from "Lessons From My Father." This particular excerpt is a testament to the grace of God. I can refer to as many characters in the bible that were named...
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The Father's Love!

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In early 2020, I was fortunate to get a glimpse of the Heavenly Father’s love. As a young girl, I experienced my earthly father’s love. He was such a great example of a father. I believe most of you have had great experiences with your fathers.  Interestingly, even with such grounding, I still had insecurities. There were always times in my life when I second-guessed myself. I sought validation from p eople. I had so much fear in me. Growing up in church also didn't help much. I mean, I spoke positive affirmations, and quoted scripture about my circumstances but still had this deep-seated fear in me. For some time, I questioned God's love for me and then began to indeed believe His love was for others but not me.  This one time, I sat down to have a conversation with one of my good friends. She told me a few truths that had always been right under my nose but I had not known. One of them is a scripture we quote quite often.  Proverbs 23:7...as he thinketh in his heart, so...
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Hurray…I have finally completed my book!

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We are screaming! It is quite exciting, to say the least. My very first book; “ Lessons from My Father ” has finally been completed. The journey has been long and yet quite interesting.  11 years ago, I embarked on a writing project. Shortly after my father died, I searched my heavy and broken heart for a solution to overcome the grief. My pain just seemed to increase day by day.  As I passed by elderly men while walking on the street, I couldn't help but question why my dad had to die earlier. He could have been alive today for me to enjoy his company as an elderly man. I met my friend’s fathers too and envied my friends. I always told them how blessed they were to have their fathers alive. I was selfish! Well, “A Father’s Journey” was written as a little unpublished booklet. The whole idea was for me to relieve the memories and relive the moments, I did!  I have since expounded on the little booklet, now turned; into "Lessons From My Father." Something weird happened wh...
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